Sometimes, when I think about how I want to do something, I find myself thinking about people whom I admire and asking myself, "what would this person do?"
Allow me to give you some examples.
- My coworker Mike Wie: he is my adventure hero and my party hero. I have started using the phrase "pulling a Mike Wie" when I do things that I think he'd do in a similar situation. When I went to Chicago and took the wrong bus, I "pulled a Mike Wie" and decided to take the bus to the end of the line and get a view of South Chicago. I saw things that normal tourists wouldn't see and gained a little perspective. That is something Mike would do. Also, he throws great parties. He invites a good mix of people, he has good drinks, makes yummy appetizers, and makes sure no one goes hungry or thirsty. Now when I host a party I think about what Mike does and try to do the same.
- My coworker Janet - she is my house hero. Her house is awesome. Everywhere you look, there is something interesting and new to examine. She doesn't just decorate with "stuff," she decorates with meaningful items; souvenirs, gifts, vintage things. Also, when I was house sitting for her, I noticed she had a box of Kleenex in almost every room. I've always been a fan of just using toilet paper to blow my nose, but those Kleenex boxes made a difference and now I'm a convert.
- Sam G. and Sam Z. are my work heroes. They're both smart, motivated, and interested in their work. Being younger guys, they are not affected by cynicism and discrimination and treat others with respect. They are what I'd envision as ideal employees at my workplace.
- John Z. is my aging hero. The guy is 81, has been retired for 15 years, and still comes to work every day. He is still one of the leading scientists in his field and travels the world attending conferences and giving presentations. He pays close attention to his health but never passes up a treat. He hikes every weekend, 5-10 miles each trip, walks during his lunch hour, bowls, does step aerobics, and lifts weights. He is fluent in German and sings in a German choir. I hope when I am 81 I am as healthy, motivated, and accomplished as he.
- Jim W. is my quiet hero. I feel like I can tell him anything and it won't immediately be broadcasted to the world. I respect that.























